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Can There Be No Mystery Left in Our Personal Lives

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LADY OF MYSTERY
Photograph by Mysza831-Flickr

July 18, 2010 — “Greta Garbo couldn’t exist in the 21st century,” writes Ben Brantley in The New York Times.

“Today’s democracy of technology would conspire to put a fast and brutal end to the tantalizing demi-invisibility that Garbo sustained so well.”

“The world, you see, no longer has any tolerance for — let alone fascination with — people who aren’t willing to publicize themselves. Figures swathed in shadows are démodé in a culture in which the watchword is transparency.”  Continue reading… 

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